Little secrets make men tempted by you
They all say “woman heart, sea needle”, man’s heart?
It can not be opened at all, is it?
Maybe you lack a spell of Alibaba.
Here are five secrets. Tip 1: The real man is afraid of being rejected and hopes to be affirmed, afraid of being rejected, especially by his closest woman, which is a common problem for men.
銆€銆€The survey shows that the exact man feels that the woman always picks and chooses for them, so they worry that when they say something, they get ridicule, which makes them feel humiliated.
銆€銆€A man’s self-esteem is like a fragile item like an eggshell. The more you give him the recognition, the easier it is for him to talk about his mind.
This does not mean that you have no opinion or that you have no opinion on this matter.
銆€銆€To love a man is to accept him, not to shape him.
If he opens his mouth, you will say “that’s wrong, I don’t agree” or “Where do you get this crazy idea,” he will immediately swear.
銆€銆€One of the tasks that hens have to do before laying eggs is to make sure the surrounding environment is safe, because those eggs are basically safe after they are born.
銆€銆€By the same token, people must determine whether the other person can accept the secret when they tell the deepest secret in their heart, because this secret is the treasure in his heart.
銆€銆€Don’t think that men don’t care about everything, he always looks at you carefully before opening.
銆€銆€Tip 2: Brighten your position Some women will only nod their heads like a woodpecker when they hear a man mentioning their inner secrets.
銆€銆€At this time, what men need is the joy of sharing.
He is accompanied by all kinds of worries and worries while he is telling his heart.
銆€銆€For example, many men will keep thinking about the question “If I say it, she will leave me.”
At this time you need to stand out and you have to speak.
銆€銆€When he tells you something very personal, he makes a statement like this – “That’s not too bad, I am doing worse.”
“Or “I really appreciate what happened.”
Let him know that you are like him, his experience is not unique.
銆€銆€Remember to show that you are on his side.
Many women only said that his view of the matter was wrong after listening to the man’s story.
This way you stand in the opposite direction.
銆€銆€For example, he tells you that he doesn’t get along well with his colleagues. You have to look at it from his perspective, instead of seemingly understanding and analyzing some sort of “in fact, others may not have this meaning”.Stupid.
銆€銆€Create harmony and let him feel that you are surrounded by the same planet and living in a similar world.
Your honest and positive feedback is crucial.
If you do this, he will be excited about his resonance.
銆€銆€Tip 3: Let’s let go when you let go. Have you ever had such an experience: Your conversation with your husband or boyfriend has finally turned into a bitter, including what he missed, how he hurts you, and what he owes you now.
銆€銆€This situation occurs in every couple or couple, and psychologists say that this feeling makes men cringe.
銆€銆€In fact, there is a saying that you don’t like to listen – all love is like dancing, you share the wrong answer while sharing the wrong answer.
Know what a slap in the face is not ringing, even if he is mistaken, you can’t say that there is no responsibility for this mistake.
銆€銆€Men are most afraid of women not letting go of things in the past, so there are very few old things to mention.
銆€銆€Their fears are not unreasonable. Some women like to play the role of victims and “martyrs”. They need to use their complaints about love to make themselves feel good.
銆€銆€Perhaps this method allows them to temporarily hold some men, but remember that if you dress up as a blame to retain men by past sacrifices, this means that your feelings are already dangerous.
銆€銆€Tip 4: Exercise the courage to listen to the truth, you have to have the courage to listen to the truth.
銆€銆€Many men feel that women want or need beautiful lies.
Some of my clients have said that they are afraid to tell their partner what happened in their lives or their true feelings, because it caused the other person to be disappointed.銆€銆€Know why you would leave this impression on men?
銆€銆€Because in fact, many women like to control men with emotions – and control the relationship between them.
Women often ask men to make specific reactions. For example, when she sheds tears, men should immediately send their shoulders with a gentle whisper.
When it is not available, the woman is stressed.
銆€銆€In fact, this is to suggest that men do not tell the truth.
銆€銆€We make such mistakes from time to time, but the willingness to hear the truth is the beginning of a truly mature relationship.
This means that men realize that he has a reliable partner and can suffer with it.
銆€銆€Don’t be discouraged, don’t be discouraged. Maybe you can’t accept all the facts now, but you can exercise your tolerance if you want.
銆€銆€Fantasy can make women feel good, but the more facts we accept, the stronger we become.
The real security is not from the recognition of others, and the sincerity is true to ourselves. Only then can we hear the truth.
銆€銆€Tip 5: The best way to help a man to tell his heart is to be honest, natural, and true to yourself, and to release a warm and acceptable atmosphere.
銆€銆€The people we meet in our lives are like mirrors of our own different faces. We attract other people who make us fall in love with our strengths.
銆€銆€That’s why the five topics I’m proposing here are for men and for women.
銆€銆€For example, can you give up self-evaluation?
Can you not worry about what you have done wrong in the past?
Or are you always covered by the shadow of your mistakes and failures?
How can a person who can’t let himself forgive others?
銆€銆€When a person fully accepts himself, he can create a state of complete relaxation.
Do you feel that some people have a kind of charm, even if we don’t know each other for a long time, we are willing to believe them and tell our hearts.
銆€銆€If you can do a clear understanding of yourself, you are basically the impetuous, fickle, disguise, conceit and inferiority that prevailed in this era. People who read this have a sense of intimacy.